Friday, June 11

hello from Trasloco

Sorry about my post yesterday. I generally avoid making apologies when it comes to posting (or not) here, but I think I let a little too much crazy show yesterday.

We're sorting this evening and it's going slowly. I'm still freaking out a little as Tuesday seem to be quickly approaching and more and more activities get crammed into the space between now and then. I need to collect my thoughts.

The shipping costs break down to $3.85/lb. With that figure in my head, I'm "weighing" carefully whether or not something stays or goes. Even things that I never questioned keeping before, like books are getting the boot now. National Geographics... bye bye. Egg, Dairy, Wheat Free Cooking... uh, see ya! I'm not looking forward to piling up the books from the library.

The kids are sorting too and started out really well. But then I started pulling things out of closets that they haven't seen in a while and suddenly the pile is growing. I think I'm going to have to make some cuts behind their backs. But I don't think it's fair for me to rank the importance of their things. I'm allowing things like the giant shark tooth shaped piece of drift wood that Punkone has had on his nightstand for the past two years...

I keep reminding myself how excessive everything seemed when it arrived here from the states. We let them ship everything thinking that a recreation of their home would give them a sense of stability. They didn't need it. It was like an excessive Christmas as box after box of toys was opened, remembered and then set aside.

They've changed so much in three years. Instead of a two foot high play table, we're thinking of setting them up with desks. The donation pile keeps growing with word puzzles and animal lotto and non-slip step stools.

One thing I can say for moving is that it gives you an opportunity to shed old skin and show off some new and vibrant colors.

4 comments:

  1. Moving is one of the most stressful thing you can do.

    It's offical.

    They did some studies.

    And anyway you didn't sound at all crazy love.

    Any luck with the comune to take stuff to the dump ?

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  2. So shed the skin. Grab a thought. And dive back into living and life !

    As you always do. So very well.

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  3. Anonymous6:47 AM

    I love that part of moving -- getting rid of all the stuff that's weighing you down. When you think about it, there's really very little in the way of material goods you actually NEED to live a happy life

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  4. Good luck with all that. I live in an 800 sq foot house and I am surprised when I go and see how much stuff other folks accumulate. And the stuff we have...it does not always get played with either. Less can be more in some ways. The kids get creative with HOW they play.

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...and you may ask yourself, well...how did I get here?