tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5699989418747859369.post6354520024706833684..comments2023-09-12T08:00:29.447-07:00Comments on Strange Pilgram: behind glassChristine Gramhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13783180729146518061noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5699989418747859369.post-40237511061169286282008-11-12T04:05:00.000-08:002008-11-12T04:05:00.000-08:00My early days were filled with moments just like y...My early days were filled with moments just like yours... and many, many mis-understandings where I would THINK that people were saying something bad, when they were really just excited. It was tiring, to say the least. But now that my German is fluent, I have discovered that 98% of the time, most people just talk to hear the sound of their own voice (me included) and am astounded when I think about how much work I put into learning a second language -- for what! LOL Keep going.. it gets easier (usually with a couple of glasses of red)Lyndahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03037350189933791568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5699989418747859369.post-4696359461987306892008-11-12T02:31:00.000-08:002008-11-12T02:31:00.000-08:00Beautifully written! I know exactly how you feel....Beautifully written! I know exactly how you feel. :)MsTypohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10405552178619579820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5699989418747859369.post-16106865189447089712008-11-12T01:59:00.000-08:002008-11-12T01:59:00.000-08:00I'm new to this. Thanks for your comment.Expressi...I'm new to this. Thanks for your comment.<BR/><BR/>Expressive in every way? I'll say yes, but also note that I think expression means something totally different to Italians I know than it does to this American. I've found my Italian friends are very skilled with language, art, style. But there is, I think, a difference that, although subtle, is important. The difference is the emotional connection. For me, being expressive is often accompanied by strong emotion. That my best work come from things or ideas I feel deeply. And the more expressive someone is, the more consumed they are in their emotions. It's not the case here. I am discovering that Italian have what I think is a healthy detachment from their forms of expression. That somehow, mastery and skilled use of these forms is related more to the perfection of form itself rather than the emotion or idea being conveyed.<BR/><BR/>Am I making any sense here?<BR/><BR/>It's an aspect of the culture that I'm just now starting to appreciate. So take what I say lightly. I may have no idea what I'm talking about.Christine Gramhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13783180729146518061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5699989418747859369.post-30274416074371205342008-11-11T11:34:00.000-08:002008-11-11T11:34:00.000-08:00A very intense posting with so many meanings. I'm ...A very intense posting with so many meanings. I'm new to your blog. Italians are very expressive in every way, aren't they?Gutsy Livinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02226653890127738115noreply@blogger.com